Lifestyle: If Considering a Change for The Better
If considering a change for the better is the plan or even the idea of making positive changes, one must first read a few articles to get inspired. Like these:
If considering a change for the better is the plan or even the idea of making positive changes, one must first read a few articles to get inspired. Like these:
Yes, it is August 1st and instead of focusing on the “I can’t believe its….(insert Month) already!” Kinda of thinking, I am gearing my attention to all the positive things that have happened in the past 7 months so that I stay inspired and focused on what I would like to achieve in the next coming four months leading to 2018. January 2017 February 2017 March 2017 April 2017 May 2017 June 2017 July 2017 {featured photo source}
The past three months or even more, I’ve been on the go – working long hours, not sleeping well, nor eating healthy, and exercise has been put on hold, unless you consider driving back and forth to the country as exercise. I realize just the other day while at Trader Joe’s, how unhealthy I feel, physically and emotionally. Thinking that perhaps I needed a week or so just being disconnected from everything. And of course the next five articles just happened to pop up in my social network – network if you will 🙂 {photo source}
I honestly could be engrossed in grocery shopping and an idea pops into my head about…whatever. And just last night while at the local produce store picking peaches, I remembered just how great my ‘hubs’ and I felt every time we came back from vacation. And that thought led to – does real love exist? And all of a sudden I felt the need to shift gears…to…dogs, and how they react to things, and people, and are also affected by events that take place in their owners lives and then all of a sudden this and that happened and I found a few topics I wanted to share and gather up your opinions about:
As I’ve mentioned before, it’s been a struggle for me the past couple of months – trying to rationalize the changes in my life I never imagined possible. While I am doing my best to cope and mend, I decided Raw Silk and Saffron may not be the best place to pour out my feelings or emotions or whatever we go through when our hearts are broken. So, I am going to keep Raw Silk and Saffron all about the fun side of things and offer up this site which I’ve kept private until now, for all the other real-life topics in the raw, not sugar-coated, not diplomatic, just the real life facts and truth about – life, love marriage and family. Hope to see you there. And if not, than glad you are here.
Last week was a whirlwind, or almost felt surreal because my obligation to house sit and doggy care came to an end, with me tearing up over having to leave the wonderful pup (I consider him at the age of 5) I bonded with and the house. Which near the end, I felt too scared to leave, because it had become the perfect refuge for me to cope with the changes in my personal life, than the undesired chore it started out to be six weeks before. I left the house and the dogs and took a flight to the south, Alabama to be exact, to attend a military graduation for a dear person in my life who, at a crossroad in her life, decided joining the military was the best solution for her new start. The evening before the graduation, she asked me to pin her rank on her uniform during the ceremony, and while walking up to the stage the day of, I suddenly felt overly humbled by the honor she had bestowed …
While I work on myself – trying to cope and do all I can to focus on the positive instead of the negative, I find myself leaning towards topics that I find useful for me right now and perhaps even for anyone dealing with difficult changes in their life:
Let’s face it, all of us experience some form of anxiety at least once in our lifetime, or have issues with self-esteem or dwell on negative thinking and then we spiral into a depression or embark on some form of self-destruction. It happens to the best of us. Coping with it all takes lots of courage and a level of maturity to consider how to deal with… Sometimes searching for topics relating to also help. Like these: {featured image source}
Where you need to take a few steps back and evaluate all that you are doing, have done and plan on doing – in life, in love, in work, in family, in everything that makes up your life? That’s where I am today…pardon me while I regroup. {photo source}
Over the weekend I went shopping, more like browsing by myself. I think subconsciously I needed to people watch more than anything so I can validate the human behaviors I’ve written about for a creative writing assignment. While in Michael’s (the craft store for those unfamiliar) I noticed number of couples, the man helping his wife or partner find something – the right color of a project, one woman shared a photograph on her cellphone for him as reference to help her find JUST THE RIGHT RED-ORANGE. I chuckled at the way he was pointing to every red paint color and her getting irritated or annoyed with him. Then another husband was given the task to find a spool of thread, which I realized how nervous he was, gathering a dozen samples for the wife to choose from. Another one was in charge of helping pick out imitation flowers for his wife. He stood there patiently holding the bunch and occasionally suggesting this and that only to get her disapproval. I left the store and …